The Dev and I agree, some things work long distance better. :) And I agree of course. I need MY space, totally. I hate people and absolutely anyone, who refuses to give me my space. I give people more than they deserve, I give them their space, I don't harass them with stuff, I keep to myself, I like doing my own thing, I'm a people pleaser, yet I know where to draw the line, but some people. Gah. He says I should never ignore someone, but there is no other way, I do NOT have the ability to say NO to someone's face, and some people just don't get the drift.
What about the vibes? Vibes travel long distance too. I know it does. Why don't people get the fact that I don't like talking too much, unless the person is my kinda person. I absolutely hate small talks, like hi, how was your day, do you miss me, do you love me, I wish you were here, I miss you, all said by different people.
Okay, don't get me wrong, I like it, but not very often, not every day. It sounds very clingy, and I'm not a very clingy person, not by nature at the least. Not very long ago, I was with this person, and this one flirted with almost everyone, and even though I liked the person, I kept my distance, and then she'd come and ask, whether I cared or not, whether she flirted or not. What in the bloody hell is that? I think it's a pathetic way to seek my attention. I look, I notice stuff. I observe. I'm always looking, even if it's not very evident. I don't make things evident. I'm a supressor, (sp?) now, go suck on that.
I rest here.
37 comments:
Yes yes indeed. Not that it's hard to figure it out. :)
We've come a long way to NOT understand whom you like talking to, and whom you don't like to.
Please secure your space, your line-of-control at your own pace. :)
Satan: You are the one to talk, who puts up stupid messages on Orkut or elsewhere, and who coaxes me into calling him, and then don't bother to return my call. :|
meow !!
Long distance is good especially when you do not need the "other" things that come with proxmity. :P
"Satan: You are the one to talk, who puts up stupid messages on Orkut or elsewhere, and who coaxes me into calling him, and then don't bother to return my call. :|
Who coaxes you ...
... then gives it up ...
... Changes his mind ...
... Changes his mindset in this whole matter.
Let's bite it: I'm not of YOUR TYPE. I don't like reading books. I don't belong to posh lifestyle living background. I don't like talking about a pair of shoes only because it has a brand name.
You don't like talking about design aesthetics. You don't like talking about newer technologies. Nor would you like to talk about local politics.
So there we are. Oops, there's nothing between us to talk about except for "Hi's, Hello's and Take Care's".
Moral of Story: Incompatible Friends.:)
'I don't like reading books. I don't belong to posh lifestyle living background. I don't like talking about a pair of shoes only because it has a brand name.'
You know what? You just made me sound like a blonde bimbette. But I am not going to explain myself, you have me figured out all wrong.
Whatever.
Blonde? I'm not a racist.
Bimbo or Bimbette, I don't know. All I know is that sometimes you're quite full of yourself.
And yeah, whatever. Stay Happy my old friend.
I thought it was about myspace :|
Satan: I'm never full of myself. You have no clue what you are talking about. Oh and you hardly know me, to write stuff about me, some sleepovers' don't make one a best friend, and especially when you think you come as a 'free package' with the one above.
I don't know what is it with you Taurens, why do you'll think that the effing world cannot function with you people.
Like I cannot write a fucking blogpost now, I'll have to think I might end up offending some people in the process.
Well, dear friend this post or no post for that matter is about YOU, it is not even about people who you know, so quit giving yourself all the credit, because one day very soon you'll look around and see, your ego, the size of Manhattan has been crushed and left to bleed.
It's weird to see, how a blog post can bring out the best or worst in people.
'I don't know what is it with you Taurens, why do you'll think that the effing world cannot function with you people.'
*without
I also thought that the post was about myspace. :|
Z and SG: It's changed to 'his' space, as I can see. :)
Posh lifestyles ??
Really now... Harrrumph.
Your blog is generating more traffic now. High time you put an Adsense banner on your blog and become rich. :)
And as for the rest of it, I don't know how assumptions are made so carelessly and s thoughtlessly. :|
Still can't believe I spent such nice days with you people. And HOW things end up.
Coming Weekend's talk: Seeon - Apparently Sayantan AKA Satan was saying blah blah bleh bleh.
KARRY AWN!!! .... since I'm GAWN!! :)
R: Search me, I have no clue at all, seems like a person on Prozac. :)
I wonder too, especially when the person has spent some time with us. Not worth it, too much time spent.
Sayatan: We don't bitch about people we like, the rule of friendship doesn't teach us that, of course you might be carrying a different rule book all together, it's all them, who start first, take for an instance your case.
Gone is a nice word, it leaves nothing. Some people don't even leave any mark, wonder why they were here.
Friend Satan. You do not know me that well that you think that you have the right as well as the audacity to comment like this. What makes you want to judge my character when, very evidently, I have not said a word against you.
Please do not make such provocative comments. Also, please do not drag me into your personal inefficiencies because I play no such part in your playpen.
@ SEEON: Chill, that very last part about you, I was kidding. But yeah rest all throughout was not. You don't have to put 'lol' to let people know when you're kidding when you're not. :)
hmm... everyone has gone mad.
'Sayantan "Satan" Biswas said...
@ SEEON: Chill, that very last part about you, I was kidding. But yeah rest all throughout was not. You don't have to put 'lol' to let people know when you're kidding when you're not. :)'
You do know, that you weren't joking. Just because it's Shion you are dealing with, you chicken out fast.
That scared you are? Interesting.
@T: I took an offense only and only on this offensive post and it's author. Since the offensive author is surrounded by a few close friends, some talks might come around them. Which doesn't necessarily mean I was referring to them.
Speaking of chickening out, if I had to chicken out, I wouldn't have bothered to comment on your useless ranting post in the first place.
Scared?? Hehhe. Been an inch closer to death and coming back. I don't fear death. But I always avoided disrespectful useless death. Unlike bunch of people who are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, I'm son of a lower middle class family man earns a living out of hand-made musical instruments. I might not have the effect of butters and ghees in my physique, but I have the gutts to do WHAT I WANT, WHENEVER I WANT. :)
Anyways, I think we had enough. The conclusion is still the same. We seem to be NOT SO FRIENDLY.
Moreover I made a mess out of your blog. It's just that your post was too offensive and provocative to not reply to. How do you expect people to not get affected after reading such an offensive post? If you want to write something similar, write it on a personal diary which you don't share with anyone. Or else expect repercussions. This is not the way to do it.
I removed your ID from my Orkut and Facebook friend-list so we don't have to see each other or read each other. What's the use of a friend if you don't enjoy talking to them on phone? You just had to let us know that you don't enjoy. :)
You know what, you have no right to FUCKING judge whether I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth or not.
You have no clue about MY family situations, so therefore REFRAIN. If I was born with a golden spoon in my mouth, I wouldn't be here, slogging my ass off every night, when all you do is, sit at the comfort of your house, do sleepovers, strum the guitar, 'feel very lonely', get drunk on a pint of beer, change your orkut status for people to see, and then comment.So much for a life. Ha fucking ha!
Oh just because I go out on weekends to spend some 'time' with my friends, it doesn't mean that I'm NOT from the middle class? You are talking from the top of your head. Sayatan, Earth to you!!
Boss, even I have the guts, or the right to do whatever that I want to do. It's just people like you, who have problems with me doing stuff. If a simple harmless blog post can incite this result in you, imagine what if I had done anything else.
Your 'good' friend has commented on this blog too, how the fuck hasn't he taken any offense to anything?
And who are you to decide whether we've had enough or not, and that too in MY blog?
You are just a nobody, like I am. My post was basically very very harmless, give it a month, come back and read, it'll seem funny and juvenile. Of course my responses weren't juvenile at all, because you incited all the above responses, if you hadn't said anything, this post would have gone unnoticed like the rest. All thanks to you. You've taught me how to write a blog post and irritate the hell out of a 'lower middle class boy.'
Where would I be without you? Nowhere.
All I'd do would be to just sit around my house and keep checking the writers' fork in my palm.
Oh and just for the records, I blocked you on Gtalk, I hate to see you glowing on my face, it's bloody disgusting, and there you go, your number has also been deleted off the phone, I'd appreciate if you do the same.
Times spent with you. None cherished. :)
I cherished though. I'm not a liar. Thanks to you, R, R & S I had a BLAST in Bangalore.
"when all you do is, sit at the comfort of your house, do sleepovers, strum the guitar, 'feel very lonely', get drunk on a pint of beer, change your orkut status for people to see, and then comment.So much for a life. Ha fucking ha!"
I wish you had qualified the skill level to understand what I really do: http://www.linkedin.com/in/sayantanbiswas
"Your 'good' friend has commented on this blog too, how the fuck hasn't he taken any offense to anything?"
Because he doesn't fall in your "Hi Hello" category.
"I'd appreciate if you do the same."
Did that long time back re. :)
Might I point out that Satan, you do not really know the Bean's background. Ergo, I wish you had refrained from commenting on her past. I imagine it would be quite offensive to her. Let it just be said that she was never born with anything even resembling a spoon in her mouth. She works very hard to string together a very basic living for herself and her mother.
Might I also point out that posting your linkedin profile proves nothing to anyone. I perfectly understand what you do and that you do those things quite well but its not a proper reaction.
Why have you taken offense to such a post is what intrigues me? Why did you automatically assume that the post is for you?
I wish you had qualified the skill level to understand what I really do: http://www.linkedin.com/in/sayantanbiswas
Boss, I'm NOT interested in how you earn your daily bread. Just don't get into the MY way.
From assumption of "gr8 Frnds" to "Oh only Hi hello" and then to "U R Blocked".
Hilarious.
Disclaimer: This is just an observation. Any offence taken by anyone reading this is doing it at his/her own will.
:D
I'm never the one to take any offense, so it is NOT going to be directed at me.
Such is life.
Oh by the way, he wasn't a GOOD friend.. he was a free package, we'd get every weekend.
But yeah, on a very serious note, people fall apart all the time, some get back, some do NOT. They just branch out elsewhere and start living their lives differently from that of their friends.
Then one day you come online, and realize that you have this person in your friendslist and you don't talk to him anymore, that's when you hit the block or delete button, not once remembering the good times spent, the laughter at whoever expenses'. The only thing that remains is the hatred. :)
As someone used to say, 'better a cruel truth, than a comfortable delusion.'
"Might I point out that Satan, you do not really know the Bean's background. Ergo, I wish you had refrained from commenting on her past. I imagine it would be quite offensive to her."
I don't. I wonder how much SHE knows about me to talk like that. Unfortunately, among my friends, I guess only Mr Batra knows everything what my life is TRULY about.
"Why have you taken offense to such a post is what intrigues me?"
Not just me, a close friend of mine too. He was also supposed to participate in this flame-war from the beginning. I insisted him not to.
"Why did you automatically assume that the post is for you?"
Somebody should have had the courtesy to clarify. And that also without ATTITUDE.
Neither Trina was born with a silver spoon nor Satan was born with a XBox360. I know you guys for long and you guys belong to almost identical background both socially and economically. And you both haven't completed your graduation. See I can find so many similarities between you guys.
@ Satan - If you are considered as just as a hi/hello friend, accept it.
@ Trina - Next time you write a post about how ugly that girl looked in her picture or how irritating that guy is, please help yourself to provide a link of the profile/site of that concerned person. It will generate more controversy. Then your blog will have more hits than Aamir Khan's blog.
Or else bite each other and let me enjoy. I lou entertainment.
Very aptly put Zom, very aptly put indeed.
Indeed. Nicely put. :D .... Wa-Kill after all. :P
'I don't. I wonder how much SHE knows about me to talk like that.'
Like WHAT? I know you strum the guitar, 'feel very lonely,' do sleepovers, get drunk on a pint of beer and change your Orkut status, these are known to me by mere observation, you do NOT have to know about a person to know about these, what hurts your ego here? Did I hit a raw nerve somewhere?
'Not just me, a close friend of mine too. He was also supposed to participate in this flame-war from the beginning. I insisted him not to.'
I know Sayantan, we've spoken and sorted out the misunderstanding, (I assume) so kindly quit fanning the flames.
'Somebody should have had the courtesy to clarify. And that also without ATTITUDE.'
Sorry boss we ain't as courteous as you are, and if my memory serves me well, it was very much clarified on the 8th comment. And even if the message didn't get through your skull, then I do NOT owe anyone any explanation, and certainly not YOU.
"what hurts your ego here? Did I hit a raw nerve somewhere?"
Nothing about ego. Something else. Chhod re.
"Sorry boss we ain't as courteous as you are, and if my memory serves me well, it was very much clarified on the 8th comment."
Why would it have to go till the 8th comment?? The 2nd comment was by you. And you could have clarified in there only. That means you meant something initially, then you wanted to derail the matter of discussion into something else.
Moreover everybody's ASKING me "Why do you think it's about you?". Why the interrogation? This interrogation is itself instigating, and there's the attitude problem. I expected much more like a "Satan this is not about you". Yes, a statement, not a question.
"And even if the message didn't get through your skull, then I do NOT owe anyone any explanation, and certainly not YOU."
A - T - T - I - T - U - D - E - !
*/careless whistling. :)
Lastly, somebody has to stop. So I tried to do it multiple times in this very post. Your friends also tried to do the same. But you're just continuing. I don't know if it's your attraction towards this post, or is it that you DO have some free time. Just remember one thing, I have unlimited bandwidth, ample of useless time (like you claimed previously). Hence I'm always there to reply to your very intellectual comments. :)
You are the one who started it, so we'll have to ASK you itself, why would you think that, it is about you?
Tell you what, I'm NOT continuring anything. It is my blog and I want to have the last word. And tell you what. GET LOST.
Capisce?
*continuing.
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